Better Than Bingo · Activity Slides
Common Ground, No Cheating
Uncover three things the group shares, with the obvious answers taken off the table.
Facilitator prep · Do not project yet
Set the room up for success.
Materials
- None
Before you begin
- Choose two or three obvious answers to ban
Facilitator language · Do not project yet
What to say
“Find three things everyone in your group has in common. You may not use the obvious facts that brought you into this room.”
Facilitator notes · Do not project yet
Keep it comfortable and useful.
Make room for everyone
- Allow people to pass on any line of inquiry.
- Keep prompts broad and non-biographical.
- Do not reward groups for finding more personal commonalities.
Watch out for
- Do not let the activity become a hunt for trauma or marginalization.
- Avoid competitive scoring based on uniqueness.
For the group
Here’s what to do.
- 1
Form groups of three to five.
- 2
Name the banned answers—for example employer, city, job field, or attendance at this event.
- 3
Give groups six minutes to find three genuine commonalities.
- 4
Ask each group to share only its most unexpected answer.
Prompt 01
What routine do you all protect?
Take a moment to think. Passing or writing instead is always okay.
Prompt 02
What harmless opinion do you share?
Take a moment to think. Passing or writing instead is always okay.
Prompt 03
What skill did you learn outside formal training?
Take a moment to think. Passing or writing instead is always okay.
Prompt 04
What is something all of you would happily skip?
Take a moment to think. Passing or writing instead is always okay.
Wrap it up
One last thought.
- Which connection would you not have guessed?
- What question helped your group move past obvious answers?